Thursday, January 14, 2010

Hey hey you you I don't like your girlfriend/boyfriend...

It has come to my attention that throughout my 18 years of living on this planet, that many (not all) people young and old feel that a girlfriend/boyfriend is necessary to make their lives complete. I honestly do not think that said "spouse" is necessary to live a fulfilling life, God did not create us with the intention of us being alone for the rest of our lives, so let time pass and let love find YOU, don't go looking for love. I know that I do not have any personal experience with a girlfriend or being in a relationship, but I have never felt a pang of loneliness because I did not have a girlfriend/"spouse." If you're reading this and you ARE involved in a relationship, by all means pursue, continue, cherish, and persevere through it, but if you happen to be "alone" rethink about the other people in your life like friends and family. Friends and family both start with f for a reason...they are there FOR you...hahahha lame alliteration I know, but seriously don't feel like a girlfriend/boyfriend is something you NEED to have, every time you tell a friend that you're "lonely this" and "lonely that" that just makes the friend think or feel "umm...do I not count as something?" Let's think of it or put it this way, pretend your life is like one of those catching games with the claw that you have to pick up those toys with. You are one of those toys, surrounded by your fellow (toys) who you have lived with for the longest time, just wait and eventually that "claw" will pick you up and you'll find your love. But always remember all the other "toys" sat and waited WITH you, and will always be a part of you, so never forget that.

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-Eric Kim

3 comments:

  1. I agree completely. Sometimes, it's hard telling this to someone when you actually ARE in a relationship. But yeah, it's true and that's how I felt even before when I was single.

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  2. i absolutely love this, eric kim. you like took the words out of my mouth. amazing. you're amazing. i love your blog, it makes me smile :]

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