It has come to my attention that I am pretty bad at dealing with my friends' relationship problems or relationship issues, honestly the reason why I don't care is because frankly relationships are not a priority in my life right now. Many friends come to me whenever they have problems and I have learned from experience not to say anything that I would normally say because said friends will only get mad at me for being me. To me I don't want to come off as frigid or cold when it comes to relationships, because I do want one eventually in my hopefully 100 year old life, but right now it is just not a priority, I don't want one , I don't need one, I don't feel that one is necessary to continue on in life. I give advice based on how I perceive what is important in life, and I do not think that a relationship is the main priority in college, college is meant for learning and for procuring a future, and if that said relationship is a hindrance in your path to your future then get rid of it, it is not worth your time, it is not worth your future. If you are in a relationship that you are doing fine in, no problems, no conflict, all love, then by all means proceed into your journey of love because relationships that only have love in them have no space for wasted time and wasted emotions. There is no point in crying over spilled water, that water's gone, just pour yourself some more water. Don't come to me if you want someone to sympathize with you in a relationship, I can't help. I do not possess the ethos in being able to help you, I have never been in a relationship and therefore I do not have any prior knowledge to hep you with.
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-Eric Kim
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